Striving to become your favorite version of yourself is actually a long-hidden wish in your heart that you've never dared to admit—finally wanting to be seen. The person you admire often stems from unfulfilled desires from childhood, things you didn't dare express or act willfully about back then, but now as an adult you want to become brave and carefree, decisive and unwavering. If nobody had your back in childhood and you were constantly denied, as an adult you want to become successful and crave recognition. If you were always overlooked as a child, now you hope to live brilliantly and be noticed. All human motivation comes from suppressed desires; your effort is about finding an outlet for your own wishes. Becoming your favorite person is essentially a deep form of self-healing—living in a way that makes your heart skip a beat when you see yourself, living with pride, is the best reconciliation with your past.