Morrisss

The reason you have lost your inner strength has never been because you are not strong enough, but because your power has been systematically and long-term taken away. How is power taken away? You are trained to prioritize others first, respond to others first, meet needs first, and solve problems first, while you yourself are always placed in the "wait a moment" position. Your judgment is repeatedly invalidated, and you begin to doubt yourself: Am I overthinking? Am I too sensitive? Over time, you no longer trust your own feelings. You are made responsible for the consequences of others. You

There is an interesting concept in psychology called "Loving others is also knowing oneself." It suggests that ultimately, people tend to love someone who is highly similar to themselves. Even if two individuals appear very different in external personality and behavior, maintaining a long-term stable relationship requires that their underlying personalities share the same fundamental traits. Here, "fundamental traits" refer to a person's relatively stable values, basic attitudes towards intimate relationships, emotional regulation styles, and fundamental views of the world and oneself. Love c

We are afraid of missing out. Missing a train, a person, a trend, a era. We turn life into a large game of catching shadows, with fingertips always sliding, hearts forever hanging in mid-air, afraid that a single glance down will change everything. Behind this fear lies a superstition about “possession,” believing that only by holding on tightly and seeing everything clearly can we truly live. So we hoard information but neglect to think; collect scenery but forget to feel. The true cost of missing out may not be in the thing itself, but in how it makes our “presence” become thin. Our bodies a

If you keep both cats and fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, besides blaming the cat, you should also blame yourself. Similarly, when you clearly know that human nature has weaknesses but do not take precautions, when you suffer a loss, besides resenting that person, you should also reflect on yourself. Everyone is human, with both good and evil aspects of human nature. We should never forget that just because someone appears kind, they also have weaknesses in human nature.

The best way to reduce internal friction is not to preset assumptions. I don't preset whether the other person likes me or not, I don't preset whether this sentence has hidden meanings. I only communicate naturally with the other person. If any problems arise, I communicate frankly, focusing on the matter at hand. There's no need to worry whether the other person will develop biases because of my questions. Not fearing frank communication is a filtering process. If you are honest, then naturally only honest people will stay. When thoughts are simple, people become simple. When people are simpl

When ideas change your thoughts, that is philosophy. When God changes your thoughts, that is faith. When facts change your thoughts, that is science. When a person has neither ideas nor religious beliefs, and ignores facts, stay away from him and do not waste your precious time, because philosophy refines reason, faith settles ultimate concerns, and science verifies reality. When a person actively closes the door to these three realms, he simultaneously abandons rational thinking, transcendental pursuit, and empirical verification. This is like building an indestructible cognitive prison for o

Many people go their entire lives without realizing a harsh reality: the "virtues" you are repeatedly instilled with from childhood are not necessarily meant to make your life better, but to make you easier to manage and exploit. Honesty, sincerity, and kindness are highly praised in culture, but they often only serve to constrain the weak. True strength is rarely required to be completely transparent and unreserved; what they are taught is restraint, concealment, ambiguity, and leaving a backup plan. Conversely, people from lower backgrounds are often educated to answer questions without defe

In doing things and being a person, everything you present should be a reasonable state rather than an all-glowing state. Higher awareness and greater wisdom come from the former.

The biggest rebellion of the post-80s generation is living as the "should" and telling their children "you can." We tear apart our life scripts just to leave a path for our children to "live true to themselves." On one hand, we tell our parents "I will support you in old age," and on the other hand, we tell our children "You don't have to take care of me when I'm old." This is probably the contradiction and tenderness of our generation.

Why in China does storytelling begin to replace results? When outcomes become increasingly difficult to evaluate, biases are acknowledged, and safety is compromised, the system shifts to another approach—telling stories. As a result, we no longer just discuss results, but focus on achievements, accomplishments, greatness, correctness, and the path. The common point among these words is that they do not require comparison or review. When storytelling precedes the evaluation of results, it loses the ability to correct direction. Stories can explain everything, but they cannot correct the course.

Ancient people said, “Appearance is born from the heart,” and this statement is actually very true. Whether a person is doing well or not can often be seen from their expressions and temperament without asking much. Because a person's facial expressions are not formed instantly, but are the result of long-term emotional states. Daily emotions and habitual expressions are gradually etched onto the face. If someone is chronically tense, anxious, and prone to frowning, their body will repeatedly enter a high-stress state, with elevated stress hormone levels, and facial muscles become more prone t

Wu Dalang, before he died, was still hoping that Pan Jinlian would change her mind. The greatest misconception of the weak about human nature is to think that as long as someone is human, they will have some conscience.

When a liar knows that you no longer believe them but still continues to tell lies, at this point, the lie is no longer deception but contempt and insult.

The faster you forget about your salary, the easier your future life will be. Keep using your mind to think, work selflessly, and you will soon discover ways to earn more than just a salary. You will see things that others cannot see, and opportunities will be right in front of people. However, most people never see these opportunities because they are busy chasing money and stability, so they can only get these.

Children do not have a rebellious phase; adults are the ones who rebel. Many times, what is called the "rebellious phase" is actually children growing up and differentiating themselves, while adults still cling to "you should listen to me." When children change but adults do not keep up, conflicts are labeled as "rebellion." From another perspective: children often resist not rules, but being ignored, controlled, or disrespected. The real discomfort is often felt by adults: authority is challenged, a sense of security is shaken, and the old ways no longer work. If adults are willing to upgrade

What is personal charisma? It is integrity, sincerity, insight, discernment, experience, a sharp gaze of bravery, a melancholic look in the eyes, compassion deep within, extensive knowledge, a solitary figure, and agile thinking—all of which cannot be seen but only felt.

This is how the world is. We meet all kinds of people, encounter inexplicable malice, and feel disappointed. But once it's over, you'll realize that these are actually reminders not to become that kind of person. The meaning of experience is to guide you, not to define you. Remember, the abyss can be stared into, but do not linger.

Sometimes, when doing things, I unconsciously incorporate a lot of my own ideas. As the old saying goes, this is called showing a little cleverness. This kind of cleverness always feels like taking shortcuts, thinking it's faster, but in fact, it's often wrong. Why do I say that? Because someone once told me a sentence that I have always remembered clearly: take it slow, and you'll be the fastest. When everyone stands in their own position and does their part well, it is actually the most effortless and cost-effective. This way, there will be no mutual competition, no mutual consumption, and n