If your partner is a control freak, they will have a very obvious trait: whenever you say or do something, they are the first to jump out and argue with you, pour cold water on you, and completely deny you, even if what you're saying is correct. They will insist on arguing with you. This habit of attacking people rather than issues, and being addicted to rebutting, is actually very draining for you. So what is that part of the relationship that nurtures you? When you have an idea, about