In interpersonal relationships, a person's "weak aura" often continuously triggers malicious intent from others. Because how you treat yourself can influence how the world treats you. The fundamental difference between a "weak aura" and a "strong aura" is not about external toughness, but whether you can accept yourself, believe in yourself, and firmly maintain your boundaries. If you often dare not refuse others, habitually explain yourself, feel uncomfortable inside but still choose to satisfy others' needs, then these signals, in the eyes of some predatory individuals, are like a silent invitation—meaning they can cross your boundaries, and you are unlikely to fight back. As a result, malice in human nature becomes more likely to attack you without restraint. So, as I always say: how you treat yourself, the world may treat you the same way. To earn others' respect, the prerequisite is to respect yourself enough first; to be valued and prioritized by others, the prerequisite is to value yourself first. You need to firmly choose yourself and stand on your own side.